It's never fun having to do sympathy cards. My husband's aunty lost her father and a friend lost his grandfather. It always makes me stop and reflect on what I have and those around me. But, the moment is lost as soon as one of the keiki writes on the wall with permanent marker. Then, you realize that life goes on. But, at the end of the day when all is said and done, everything is all good and hugs & love goes out to everyone.